John & Elizabeth Pattenden of East Grinstead
John Pattenden, the eldest surviving son of Richard and Mary, was baptised in East Grinstead on 27th December 1753.
Elizabeth Gower, a daughter of Richard and Ann, was baptised in Cuckfield on 18th June 1756.
John Pattenden married Elizabeth Gower in East Grinstead on 30th October 1774 and they had the following children:
Elizabeth
30 Oct 1774
East Grinstead
Ann
20 Sep 1778
East Grinstead
Mary
15 Apr 1781
East Grinstead
Thomas
23 Nov 1783
East Grinstead
Edward
12 Oct 1788
East Grinstead
Henry
6 Mar 1791
East Grinstead
Charlotte
4 May 1794
East Grinstead
Jane
21 Aug 1796
East Grinstead
Susan
21 Oct 1798
East Grinstead
They also had a son, John, who was named in his father's will but no baptism has been found for him.
John made a will, dated 23rd April 1814, in which he left his farm at Hedgecourt Common (possibly 8 acres of land) to his wife and on her death it was to be split equally between all his children except Elizabeth who had presumably already died. Edward and Henry were each to have an additional £10 and Edward was to be the executor of his father’s will.
John of Hedge Court was buried in East Grinstead, aged 70, on 6th April 1823.
Elizabeth died in Horne on 27th March 1838, aged 81, and was buried in East Grinstead on 2nd April. She must have been staying with her son Henry when she died as his wife Jane registered the death.
Of their children:
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Mary married Benjamin Cork in West Hoathly on 14th Sep 1806 and in 1841 they were living in Hartfield, Sussex.
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William married Amelia Dearling.
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Edward married Lucy Brooker in Croydon, St John the Baptist, in August 1821 and they had the following children baptised:
Edward
10 Feb 1822
Worth
William
30 May 1824
East Grinstead
Caroline
28 Jan 1827
East Grinstead
Amelia
1 Feb 1829
East Grinstead
James
11 Aug 1833
Worth
In 1841 Edward was a sawyer living in Copthorne, in the parish of Worth, Sussex. In 1851 he was farming 9 acres at Copthorne Farm with his wife and sons Edward, William and James living at home. The sons were all shown as sawyers. In 1861 Edward and Lucy were still farming 11 acres in Worth. Edward died in 1863.
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Henry married Jane Wood in East Grinstead on 9th January 1820 where they had the following children:
John
7 May 1820
East Grinstead
Eliza
25 Aug 1822
East Grinstead
Henry
10 Jul 1825
East Grinstead
Jane
24 Jun 1827
East Grinstead
William
24 May 1829
East Grinstead
Sarah
29 May 1831
East Grinstead
George
22 Jul 1832
East Grinstead
Harriet
6 Jul 1834
East Grinstead
James
1836
Horne (died young?)
Peter
31 Dec 1837
East Grinstead
Thomas
1840
Horne
Edmund
1842
Horne (died 1842)
Amos
3 Oct 1843
Horne
Henry was a sawyer living in Horne in 1841 with his wife and most of their children. In 1851 they were at Hedge Court in Horne parish. By 1861 Henry was shown as a farmer and sawyer at Waterbury Castle, Horne and in 1871 he was still farming 20 acres in Hedge Court Road with the help of his son Amos. Henry died in 1874 aged 84.
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Charlotte married James Meads in Balcombe on 21st January 1822 and are known to have had the following children baptised:
John
28 Jul 1822
Ardingly
William
17 Feb 1824
Ardingly
James
20 Feb 1825
Ardingly
Eleanor
24 Dec 1826
Ardingly
Thomas
28 Dec 1828
Ardingly
Mary
10 Apr 1831
Ardingly
Joseph
3 Feb 1839
Ardingly
In 1841 James and Charlotte were in Ardingly with their youngest three children. Charlotte died in 1848.
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Jane married Charles Tuckett in Holborn on 30th November 1827 and they had the following children:
twins
ca. 1827
both died
Charles
14 July 1829
Holborn
Henry
ca. 1831
Jane
ca. 1833
John
ca. 1835
Joseph
ca. 1838
Jane’s husband died in 1846 and in May 1848 Jane was baptised into the Mormon Church in East Grinstead. In 1849 She emigrated to the United States on the ‘Berlin’ taking her 5 children and a Caroline Pattenden with her. She spent 5 years in St Louis, Missouri before travelling to Utah where she died in Salt Lake City in 1882.
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Susan married William Peckham in Southwark on 4th Oct 1818 and they lived in Croydon where they had two daughters, both of whom died after about a year:
Susan
29 Aug 1820
Croydon - bur. 18 Nov 1821
Caroline
6 Oct 1822
Croydon - bur. 22 July 1823
William was a carpenter and in 1841 they were living at Shirley Common in Croydon and had 5-year-old Sarah Beadell with them. Sarah was the daughter of John Beadell and Mary, nee Peckham, and Mary was a daughter of a William Peckham and his wife Susanna. However this was a different William Peckham although he must have been related.
Susan died at the age of 72 in the Union House, Shirley, Croydon, on 2nd December 1857.