John & Elizabeth Pattenden of East Grinstead

John Pattenden, the eldest surviving son of Richard and Mary, was baptised in East Grinstead on 27th December 1753.

Elizabeth Gower, a daughter of Richard and Ann, was baptised in Cuckfield on 18th June 1756.

John Pattenden married Elizabeth Gower in East Grinstead on 30th October 1774 and they had the following children:

Elizabeth

30 Oct 1774

East Grinstead

Ann

20 Sep 1778

East Grinstead

Mary

15 Apr 1781

East Grinstead

Thomas

23 Nov 1783

East Grinstead

William

14 May 1786

East Grinstead

Edward

12 Oct 1788

East Grinstead

Henry

6 Mar 1791

East Grinstead

Charlotte

4 May 1794

East Grinstead

Jane

21 Aug 1796

East Grinstead

Susan

21 Oct 1798

East Grinstead

They also had a son, John, who was named in his father's will but no baptism has been found for him.

John made a will, dated 23rd April 1814, in which he left his farm at Hedgecourt Common (possibly 8 acres of land) to his wife and on her death it was to be split equally between all his children except Elizabeth who had presumably already died. Edward and Henry were each to have an additional £10 and Edward was to be the executor of his father’s will.

John of Hedge Court was buried in East Grinstead, aged 70, on 6th April 1823.

Elizabeth died in Horne on 27th March 1838, aged 81, and was buried in East Grinstead on 2nd April. She must have been staying with her son Henry when she died as his wife Jane registered the death.

Of their children:

  • Mary married Benjamin Cork in West Hoathly on 14th Sep 1806 and in 1841 they were living in Hartfield, Sussex.

  • William married Amelia Dearling.

  • Edward married Lucy Brooker in Croydon, St John the Baptist, in August 1821 and they had the following children baptised:

    Edward

    10 Feb 1822

    Worth

    William

    30 May 1824

    East Grinstead

    Caroline

    28 Jan 1827

    East Grinstead

    Amelia

    1 Feb 1829

    East Grinstead

    James

    11 Aug 1833

    Worth

    In 1841 Edward was a sawyer living in Copthorne, in the parish of Worth, Sussex. In 1851 he was farming 9 acres at Copthorne Farm with his wife and sons Edward, William and James living at home. The sons were all shown as sawyers. In 1861 Edward and Lucy were still farming 11 acres in Worth. Edward died in 1863.

  • Henry married Jane Wood in East Grinstead on 9th January 1820 where they had the following children:

    John

    7 May 1820

    East Grinstead

    Eliza

    25 Aug 1822

    East Grinstead

    Henry

    10 Jul 1825

    East Grinstead

    Jane

    24 Jun 1827

    East Grinstead

    William

    24 May 1829

    East Grinstead

    Sarah

    29 May 1831

    East Grinstead

    George

    22 Jul 1832

    East Grinstead

    Harriet

    6 Jul 1834

    East Grinstead

    James

    1836

    Horne (died young?)

    Peter

    31 Dec 1837

    East Grinstead

    Thomas

    1840

    Horne

    Edmund

    1842

    Horne (died 1842)

    Amos

    3 Oct 1843

    Horne

    Henry was a sawyer living in Horne in 1841 with his wife and most of their children. In 1851 they were at Hedge Court in Horne parish. By 1861 Henry was shown as a farmer and sawyer at Waterbury Castle, Horne and in 1871 he was still farming 20 acres in Hedge Court Road with the help of his son Amos. Henry died in 1874 aged 84.

  • Charlotte married James Meads in Balcombe on 21st January 1822 and are known to have had the following children baptised:

    John

    28 Jul 1822

    Ardingly

    William

    17 Feb 1824

    Ardingly

    James

    20 Feb 1825

    Ardingly

    Eleanor

    24 Dec 1826

    Ardingly

    Thomas

    28 Dec 1828

    Ardingly

    Mary

    10 Apr 1831

    Ardingly

    Joseph

    3 Feb 1839

    Ardingly

    In 1841 James and Charlotte were in Ardingly with their youngest three children. Charlotte died in 1848.

  • Jane married Charles Tuckett in Holborn on 30th November 1827 and they had the following children:

    twins

    ca. 1827

    both died

    Charles

    14 July 1829

    Holborn

    Henry

    ca. 1831

    Jane

    ca. 1833

    John

    ca. 1835

    Joseph

    ca. 1838

    Jane’s husband died in 1846 and in May 1848 Jane was baptised into the Mormon Church in East Grinstead. In 1849 She emigrated to the United States on the ‘Berlin’ taking her 5 children and a Caroline Pattenden with her. She spent 5 years in St Louis, Missouri before travelling to Utah where she died in Salt Lake City in 1882.

  • Susan married William Peckham in Southwark on 4th Oct 1818 and they lived in Croydon where they had two daughters, both of whom died after about a year:

    Susan

    29 Aug 1820

    Croydon - bur. 18 Nov 1821

    Caroline

    6 Oct 1822

    Croydon - bur. 22 July 1823

    William was a carpenter and in 1841 they were living at Shirley Common in Croydon and had 5-year-old Sarah Beadell with them. Sarah was the daughter of John Beadell and Mary, nee Peckham, and Mary was a daughter of a William Peckham and his wife Susanna. However this was a different William Peckham although he must have been related.

    Susan died at the age of 72 in the Union House, Shirley, Croydon, on 2nd December 1857.